"Therefore, since Christ suffered in his body, arm yourselves also with the same attitude, because he who has suffered in his body is done with sin." (1 Peter 4:1). 

     First, you must decide to say no to sin. Think about your motive to sin. What are the demands of your fallen nature and your desire for personal happiness? Are you influenced by your mode of living? I know that I was at one time.  I seemed to be surrounded by "friends" who wanted me to be unhappy along with them. 

     Secondly, decide to say yes to God's will. "As a result, he does not live the rest of his earthly life for evil human desires, but rather for the will of God. (1 Peter 4:2). Overcome your suspicions about God's will.  He promises that He will prosper you and not harm you. He plans to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). There are many other promises that God has for you, if you will study His word.  Overcome your struggle with God's will.  Don't run back to what  is familiar, like sin.  Do walk forward in faith.  Paul tells us "we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28)

     Decide who to heed "For you have spent enough time in the past doing what pagans choose to do-living in debauchery, lust, drunkenness, orgies, carousing and detestable idolatry. They think it strange that you do not plunge with them into the same flood of dissipation,and they heap abuse on you." (1 Peter 4:3-4) Resist the voice from within that calls you back.  Receive the voice from above that lifts you up. "But they will have to give account to him who is ready to judge the living and the dead. (1 Peter 4:5).

     Be done with sin and devote yourself to God's will, then you will find true happiness and you don't even have to go looking for it.

Lovingly in Christ,
Carole

"The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in Him...My heart leaps for joy and I will give thanks to Him in song" (Psalm28:7)